Sometimes we head to the mall from school to have lunch or buy what we need ( or what we think we need hehe) I love my “ not so single” friends because they bring their kids when we meet up. Kids need to play with other not so familiar kids to develop their social skills. We usually drop them off at the play houses in the malls after agreeing who brings the nanny to watch over them while we go shopping or watch a movie. Almost always is a win-win situation , the mommy gets her dose of girl talk , fun and spirit and the kiddie gets to play , exercise and make new friends.
It doesn’t have to be the mall all the time, we tried going to the GAP farm where there was a ranch and real horses, the country club just behind our house where the kids can swim, the mama and her friends can have a snack and talk while watching over them I even brought my kid to where my friends study.. basically wherever there is a bathroom should be ok, thank God my baby is a girl and she likes to be one too.. so she enjoys all the girlie stuff we do anyway, she sings and dances, likes to play with her hair and shares he opinion about clothes and shoes !! hehehe , At the end of the day the baby tells the mommy what she did while the mommy listens establishing quality time and fostering independence.
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